Thursday, January 31, 2008

A Chat with Dr. Devi Shetty (Heart Specialist) - VeryUseful!


A chat with
Dr.Devi Shetty, Narayana Hrudayalaya Heart Specialist)

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Bangalore was arranged by WIPRO for its employees .
The transcript of the chat is given below. Useful for everyone.

Qn: What are the thumb rules for a layman to take care of his heart?

Ans:
1. Diet - Less of carbohydrate, more of protein, less oil
2. Exercise - Half an hour’s walk, at least five days a week; avoid lifts and avoid sitting for a longtime
3. Quit smoking
4. Control weight
5. Control blood pressure and sugar

Qn: Is eating non-veg food (fish) good for the heart?

Ans: No

Qn: It’s still a grave shock to hear that some apparently healthy person
gets a cardiac arrest. How do we understand it in perspective?

Ans: This is called silent attack; that is why we recommend everyone past the age of 30 to undergo routine health checkups.

Qn: Are heart diseases hereditary?

Ans: Yes

Qn: What are the ways in which the heart is stressed? What practices do you suggest to de-stress?

Ans: Change your attitude towards life. Do not look for perfection in everything in life.

Qn: Is walking better than jogging or is more intensive exercise required to keep a healthy heart?

Ans: Walking is better than jogging since jogging leads to early fatigue and injury to joints

Qn: You have done so much for the poor and needy. What has inspired you to do so?

Ans: Mother Theresa , who was my patient

Qn: Can people with low blood pressure suffer heart diseases?

Ans: Extremely rare

Qn: Does cholesterol accumulates right from an early age
(I’m currently only 22) or do you have to worry about it only after you are above 30 years of age?

Ans: Cholesterol accumulates from childhood.

Qn: How do irregular eating habits affect the heart ?

Ans: You tend to eat junk food when the habits are irregular and your body’s enzyme release for digestion gets confused.

Qn: How can I control cholesterol content without using medicines?

Ans: Control diet, walk and eat walnut.

Qn: Can yoga prevent heart ailments?

Ans: Yoga helps.


Qn: Which is the best and worst food for the heart?

Ans: Fruits and vegetables are the best and the worst is oil.

Qn: Which oil is better - groundnut, sunflower, olive?

Ans: All oils are bad .

Qn: What is the routine checkup one should go through? Is there any specific test?

Ans: Routine blood test to ensure sugar, cholesterol is ok. Check BP, Treadmill test after an echo.

Qn: What are the first aid steps to be taken on a heart attack?

Ans: Help the person into a sleeping position , place an aspirin tablet under the tongue with a sorbitrate tablet if available, and rush him to a coronary care unit since the maximum casualty takes place within the first hour.

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Qn: How do you differentiate between pain caused by a heart attack and that caused due to gastric trouble?

Ans: Extremely difficult without ECG.

Qn: What is the main cause of a steep increase in heart problems amongst youngsters? I see people of about 30-40 yrs of age having heart attacks and serious heart problems.

Ans: Increased awareness has increased incidents. Also, s edentary lifestyles, smoking, junk food, lack of exercise in a country where people are genetically three times more vulnerable for heart attacks than Europeans and Americans.

Qn: Is it possible for a person to have BP outside the normal range of 120/80 and yet be perfectly healthy?

Ans: Yes.

Qn: Marriages within close relatives can lead to heart problems for the child. Is it true?

Ans : Yes, co-sanguinity leads to congenital abnormalities and you may not have a software engineer as a child

Qn: Many of us have an irregular daily routine and many a times we have to stay late nights in office. Does this affect our heart ? What precautions would you recommend?

Ans : When you are young, nature protects you against all these irregularities. However, as you grow older, respect the biological clock.

Qn: Will taking anti-hypertensive drugs cause some other complications (short / long term)?

Ans : Yes, most drugs have some side effects. However, modern anti-hypertensive drugs are extremely safe.

Qn: Will consuming more coffee/tea lead to heart attacks?

Ans : No.

Qn: Are asthma patients more prone to heart disease?

Ans : No.

Qn: How would you define junk food?

Ans : Fried food like Kentucky , McDonalds , samosas, and even masala dosas.

Qn: You mentioned that Indians are three times more vulnerable. What is the reason for this, as Europeans and Americans also eat a lot of junk food?

Ans: Every race is vulnerable to some disease and unfortunately, Indians are vulnerable for the most expensive disease.

Qn: Does consuming bananas help reduce hypertension?

Ans : No.

Qn: Can a person help himself during a heart attack (Because we see a lot of forwarded emails on this)?

Ans : Yes. Lie down comfortably and put an aspirin tablet of any description under the tongue and ask someone to take you to the nearest coronary care unit without any delay and do not wait for the ambulance since most of the time, the ambulance does not turn up.

Qn: Do, in any way, low white blood cells and low hemoglobin count lead to heart problems?

Ans : No. But it is ideal to have normal hemoglobin level to increase your exercise capacity.

Qn: Sometimes, due to the hectic schedule we are not able to exercise. So, does walking while doing daily chores at home or climbing the stairs in the house, work as a substitute for exercise?

Ans : Certainly. Avoid sitting continuously for more than half an hour and even the act of getting out of the chair and going to another chair and sitting helps a lot.

Qn: Is there a relation between heart problems and blood sugar?

Ans: Yes. A strong relationship since diabetics are more vulnerable to heart attacks than non-diabetics.

Qn: What are the things one needs to take care of after a heart operation?

Ans : Diet, exercise, drugs on time , Control cholesterol, BP, weight.

Qn: Are people working on night shifts more vulnerable to heart disease when compared to day shift workers?

Ans : No.

Qn: What are the modern anti-hypertensive drugs?

Ans : There are hundreds of drugs and your doctor will chose the right combination for your problem, but my suggestion is to avoid the drugs and go for natural ways of controlling blood pressure by walk, diet to
reduce weight and changing attitudes towards lifestyles.

Qn: Does dispirin or similar headache pills increase the risk of heart attacks?

Ans : No.




Qn: Why is the rate of heart attacks more in men than in women?

Ans : Nature protects women till the age of 45.

Qn: How can one keep the heart in a good condition?

Ans : Eat a healthy diet, avoid junk food, exercise everyday, do not smoke and, go for health checkup s if you are past the age of 30 ( once in six months recommended) ….

Share it with all your friends……. They might be benefitted……

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Monday, January 28, 2008

India’s 59th Republic Day (26 Jan 2008) photos

Indian Army soldiers march during the 59th Republic Day Parade, in New Delhi
Republic Day marks the adoption of India’s republican constitution in 1950 - three years after independence from Britain
French President Nicholas Sarkozy was the guest of honour at the parade
French President Nicholas Sarkozy was the guest of honour at the parade during which India’s latest military hardware was displayed.
Elephants take part in India's Republic Day parade in New Delhi
Tens of thousands of people gathered in the centre of Delhi, once the heart of India’s colonial past.
Indian school children perform a drama based on the Indian fight against the British rule for independence
In Bangalore, Indian school children performed a drama based on the Indian struggle for independence.
Indian soldiers from the Light Maratha Infantry perform a traditional sport called Malkhumb
Indian soldiers from the Light Maratha Infantry performed a traditional sport called Malkhumb.
Indian soldiers from the Light Maratha Infantry perform a traditional sport called Malkhumb
Tight security was in place, especially after calls to boycott the day by separatists fighting Indian forces in Kashmir.
Indian soldiers on parade
The parades were also a chance for India to display it’s military might.
Soldiers in colourful headgear marched smartly
Soldiers in colourful headgear marched smartly, while India’s latest weapons - including nuclear missiles - were also on display.(BBC)
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Wednesday, January 23, 2008

You could save a life.

STROKE: Remember The 1st Three Letters… S.T.R .

My friend sent this to me and encouraged me to post it and spread the word. I agree. If everyone can remember something this simple, we could save some folks.

STROKE IDENTIFICATION:

During a party, a friend stumbled and took a little fall - she assured everyone that she was fine and just tripped over a brick because of her new shoes. (they offered to call ambulance)

They got her cleaned up and got her a new plate of food - while she appeared a bit shaken up, Ingrid went about enjoying herself the rest of the evening. Ingrid’s husband called later telling everyone that his wife had been taken to the hospital - (at 6:00pm , Ingrid passed away.)

She had suffered a stroke at the party. Had they known how to identify the signs of a stroke, perhaps Ingrid would be with us today.

Some don’t die. They end up in a helpless, hopeless condition instead. It only takes a minute to read this…

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STROKE IDENTIFICATION:

A neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke victim within 3 hours he can totally reverse the effects of a stroke…totally. He said the trick was getting a stroke recognized, diagnosed, and then getting the patient medically cared for within 3 hours, which is tough.

RECOGNIZING A STROKE

Remember the “3″ steps, STR . Read and Learn!

Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify. Unfortunately, the lack of awareness spells disaster.

The stroke victim may suffer severe brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke.

Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions :

S * Ask the individual to SMILE .

T * = TALK. Ask the person to SPEAK A SIMPLE SENTENCE (Coherently) (eg “It is sunny out today”).

R * Ask him or her to RAISE BOTH ARMS .

If he or she has trouble with ANY ONE of these tasks, call the ambulance and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher.

NOTE : Another ’sign’ of a stroke is

1. Ask the person to ’stick’ out their tongue.

2. If the tongue is ‘crooked’, if it goes to one side or the other that is also an indication of a stroke.

A prominent cardiologist says if everyone who gets reads this shares it with others you can bet that at least one life will be saved.

….and it could be your own…..

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Indian Innovations

 Charge mobile with peepal leave

 

Its very Strange But True Very True.

Now, you do not require any mobile charger to charge your mobiles. Only there is need to use green leaf of peepal tree and after some time your mobile will get charged..

No soon the people came to learn this development, they tested it and found encouraging results. If your mobile has been discharged and you are inside a jungle then you need not to use any charger. You Should pluck two peepal leaves and your work would be done.

It is very good idea and easy to charge your mobile. You would have to open your mobile battery and connect it with peepal leaf. After that without shaking mobile set you should set the battery in your mobile set. After some time your mobile would be charged.

Though it is unbelievable but as soon as the residents of Chitrakoot came to know about the discovery they could not believe the news. But when they saw it practically then the incident proved true.

Now hundreds of mobile holders are using this technique and charging their mobiles.

Several persons including Sushil Kumar Shukla, Santosh Verma, principal of Mahatma Gandhi School , Raj Karan Patel, Shyam Patel, Shekhar Dwivedi, Pramod Gupta, Manager of Gayatri temple, RN Tripathi proved the incident true.

Whereas according to the botanists, it is just changing mutual energy into electrical energy power can be saved in battery. Similarly, it is also possible. They said that it is the subject of research.

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Step by Step guide to charge your mobile battery using peepal leaf

1- Open your mobile cover

2- Take out your battery

3- Take two to three fresh leaves of peepal/pipal/ashwattha tree

4- Touch the stub of these leaves on your mobile battery terminal for a minute

5- Clean the mobile battery terminal with the soft cloth

6- Put your battery again in your mobile and switch it on

7- Now you can see the result

8- If required repeat the process with fresh leaves Regards

 

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Photo from the Archieves

Aircraft sit on waterlogged runways at London’s Heathrow Airport one week before Heathrow becomes Britain’s main aerial gateway to the United States, 28 May 1946. Photo by Harry Todd/Fox Photos/Getty Images

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Valued exposure: A giraffe takes food from a small child at London Zoo, 1930.
Photo by General Photographic Agency/Getty Images

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Valued exposure: Crowds outside King’s Cross railway station in London, circa 1850. Photo by Topical Press Agency/Getty Images

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Gone are the days

When

The school reopened in June,

And we settled in our new desks and benches!

When we queued up in book depot, And got our new books and notes!

When we wanted two Sundays and no Mondays, yet managed to line up daily for the morning prayers.

We learnt writing withs lates and pencils,

and Progressed To fountain pens and ball pens and then Micro tips!

When we began drawing with crayons and evolved to Color pencils and finally sketch pens!

When we started calculating first with tables and then with Clarke’s tables and advanced to
Calculators and computers!

When we chased one another in the
corridors in Intervals, and returned to the classrooms


Drenched in sweat! When we had lunch in classrooms, corridors,
Playgrounds,under the trees and even in cycle sheds!

When all the colors in the world,Decorated the campus on the Second Saturdays!

When a single P.T. period in the week’s Time Table,
Was awaited more eagerly than the monsoons!

When cricket was played with writing pads as bats,
And Neckties and socks rolled into balls!

When few played”kabadi” and “Kho-Kho” in scorching sun,

While others simply played “book cricket” in the
Confines of classroom! Of fights but no conspiracies,

Of Competitions but seldom jealousy!

When we used towatch Live Cricket telecast,

In the opposite house in Intervals and Lunch breaks!

When few rushed at 3:45 to”Conquer” window seats in our School bus!

While few others had “Big Fun”, “peppermint”, “Kulfi”, “milk ice!”

and “sharbat!” at 4o Clock!
Gone are the days Of Sports Day,and the annual School Day,
And the one-month long preparations for them.

Gone are the days Of the stressful Quarterly,Half Yearly and Annual Exams, and the most
enjoyed holidays after them!

Gone are the days Of tenth and twelfth standards, when
we spent almost the whole year writing revision tests!
We learnt,We enjoyed,We played,We won,We lost,

We laughed,We cried,We fought,We thought.With so much fun in them,

so many friends, So much experience, all this and more!

Gone are the days When we use to talk for hours with our friends! Now we don’t have time to say a `Hi’!

Gone are the days When we played games on the road!

Now we Code on the road with laptop!Gone are the days

When we saw stars shining at Night!

Now we see stars when our code doesn’t Work!

Gone are the days When we sat to chat with Friends on grounds!
Now we chat in chat rooms…..!

Gone are the days Where we studied just to pass!

Now we study to save our job!

Gone are the days Where we had no money in our pockets and still fun filled on our hearts!!

Now we have the atm as well as credit card but with an empty heart!!

Gone are the days Where we shouted on the road!Now we don’t shout even at home
Gone are the days Where we got lectures from all!

Now we give lectures to all… like the one I’m doing now….!!

Gone are the days But not the memories, which will be Lingering in our hearts for ever and ever and Ever and ever and ever…..

Gone are the Days…. But still there are lot more Days to come in our
Life!!NO MATTER HOW BUSY YOU ARE,

DONT FORGET TOLIVE THE LIFE THAT STILL

EXISTS……

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Monday, January 21, 2008

Dont miss !! Read A true love saga !

Hi..

 


It’s a long one…. But, do find sometime to read it. It is touching and is true for almost everyone of us.

Friend: Happy birthday!

She: Haan…tha.. ….nk yo….u…was just getting up from the bed.

Friend: Oh! That means I am the first to wish you!

She: Naa! He has already wished me at 12 in the night.

Friend: Who???

She: Come on, who else, Nitin.

Friend: Oh, ok. So, what’s the plan for today?

She: Nitin told me that he has a surprise gift for me for my Birthday. And also we are going to Flower Show today. I am excited! I have never seen the
flower
show that happens in Lal Baug. Actually that itself is the most wonderful gift for me.

———— ——— ——— ——— ——— ——— -

Friend: “Did you go to Palace grounds all the way from Basavanagudi, to see Bryan Adam’s show!!! Who accompanied you?”

She: Nitin

Friend: By the way, who referred your CV in SoCrates? I mean you don’t know anyone there, right?

She: No, he forwarded my CV to one of his friends there.

Friend: I heard that the HR round interview went on till 8pm in the night. I think you faced difficulty in returning to your room.

She: No, he had come to pick me up. He came from his office, dropped me to my room and he returned to his room at around 11pm. He didn’t have dinner also.

I asked him to have at my room. Poor Nitin.

———— ——— ——— ——— ——— ——— -

Friend: If you are supposed to go home tomorrow itself then what about reservation?

She: I have told him, he will go to Majestic and would get it done, and he told he has some work in Majestic. That’s why I am relaxed a bit.

———— ——— ——— ——— ——— ——— -

Friend: How was your written test in Philips?

She: I failed yaar. The day before the test I had prepared perfectly. Nitin had come to our room. He taught me the basics of embedded programming concepts.

I was very confident only because of him. But something else was in store for me.

Friend: Then, what did you do on Sunday?

She: We had gone to see “Lakshya”. He doesn’t see Hindi movies. But as I was upset after failing in the Philips written test, he took me for movie. I was

very happy and surprised that he himself decided for a Hindi movie, and he was very happy that I enjoyed the movie. And you know; we had dinner in Pizza

hut. It was his belated B’day treat!

Friend: And, what was your belated gift ;-)

She: Gift!! I had given the gift on his B’day itself. I was the first to call him at 12 in the night, he was busy throughout the day, and somehow we could

meet in the evening and I gifted him with a cute time piece with a nice quote on it. He doesn’t have time sense, so my time piece must always remind him

of this. That day he didn’t give me any treat as he had to go back to office. Yesterday I had a fight over this, you know! Poor kid.


———— ——— ——— ——— ——— ——— -

Friend: Hello…what about our sari shopping program in Malleshwaram?

She: Listen, I will call you later.

Friend: You didn’t call me back in the morning, so I called now.

She: Yeah, when you called I was in Koramangala, with Nitin. He was very upset in the morning. He had a fight with his elder brother. So, it wouldn’t have

been fair on my part to leave him alone. If I am with him in such situation very soon he comes back to normalcy. So I postponed the Malleshwaram program.

———— ——— ——— ——— ——— ——— -

Friend: Hey! What happened? You seem to be very happy today.

She: Why not? You know today is one of the most happiest days for me. Nitin got an onsite assignment in UK, for 6 months! That’s why I am very happy.
All
of his hard work paid today. He had been waiting for this opportunity since long. He’ll be leaving next month.

Friend: You will miss him.

She: Badly. I am so much dependent on him. I must thank Sanju, through him only I got to know Nitin. Without Nitin it would have been very difficult for

me to stay in this alien city with no friends, relatives and on top of all, no job. He has been so caring friend all through my tough times in this city,

he is so mature, so understanding, so trustworthy. ..a true friend.

Friend: He loves you yaar.

She: I know.

Friend: And you? Don’t you love him?

She: I don’t want to.

Friend: Don’t tell me. You also feel for him.

She: I know yaar. He has everything that I expect in my dream-life-partner. I know I can never get a true life partner like him. But I don’t want to commit.

Friend: What is stopping you? I really don’t understand. When Miya-beevi are razi kya karega kazi?

She: Please…don’ t say like that. I never told him that I love him or something like that.

Friend: Is he a fool not to understand your feelings which are so clear from outside only? Poor fellow, don’t leave him alone.

She: I have told him everything about my family. He knows how orthodox my parents are. They can never expect me marrying a guy from a different caste.
They
trust me. Come what may, I will not hurt my parent’s feelings. I cannot imagine also. Now they are happily searching a guy for me in my native place.

Friend: Hmm, I don’t understand at all.

———— ——— ——— ——— ——— ——— -

She: This Saturday I have to go home, a guy is coming to see me.

Friend: Oh! Is it? Good news yaar. Your first interview! Wish you all the best.

Friend: Any guesses, who is he?

She: Please yaar. I am least bothered and least interested. For the sake of my parents’ happiness I have agreed for this.

———— ——— ——— ——— ——— ——— -

Friend: What about the interview, I was expecting your call actually?

She: Nothing so special. I didn’t like the guy’s attitude. I told my parents clearly. My parents are very understanding and so they too told me that they

won’t go ahead with this matter.

Friend: But still you should have analyzed properly.

She: I shared my views with Nitin. He had called me the next day. He didn’t suggest me anything. He didn’t tell me to say “yes” or “no”, he didn’t preach

what is right or what is wrong. But after talking to him I was satisfied that whatever decision I took was right.

———— ——— ——— ——— ——— ——— -

Friend: Yesterday your mobile was engaged for more than half an hour. I kept trying, but I slept after 11pm.

She: Yeah, I was talking to Nitin. He is very much worried about my marriage. He is concerned whether I would get a guy of my choice or not, whether I
would
be happy with him or not. I was very sad to know this. But I am helpless. I pacified him and convinced that whatever my parents do, that will be the best

for me, so no need to worry.

Friend: How Nitin will feel after you get married? Will he not be upset all the time?

She: Time will change everything. He will start living again. Was he not leading a normal life before I came into his life? It’s all matter of time. Even

I can’t do anything other than pacifying him and myself with these philosophical statements.

———— ——— ——— ——— ——— ——— -

Finally “She” got engaged with a guy of her parent’s choice (with her “yes” of course). She is in touch with both Nitin and the new “him” regularly through

chatting in Yahoo Messenger.

Finally “She” got happily married to “him”, very soon converting Nitin into memories, but deleting the memories was slow and almost impossible for Nitin.

———— ——— ——— ——— ——— ——— -

Why do girls/guys do like this?

She needs him when she is new to the city.

She needs his help in finding out a PG or hostel for her

She makes him prepare a good-format- CV for her

She needs him to drop her to the venue of a walk-in interview

She expects him to collect all the consultants’ mail ids

She needs him while preparing for the interviews

She needs his help in identifying HER skill sets, strengths and weakness!

She wants him to conduct a mock-interview for her!

She gives her yahoo mail id password so that he can forward her CV to consultants through internet in his office (in office hours!)

She needs him for boosting her confidence when she fails in the 1st written test in her life

She wants him to take her to M.G Road, Brigade Road, Forum and Big bazaar

She needs his company while visiting all the temples in Malleshwaram on Vijayadashami, though he is not a believer of God.

She asks his opinions on importance of marriage

She wants him to be a shoulder to cry when her parents force her for marriage

She needs his help in preparing her mind for the first interview with a guy

She needs his help in deciding about the marriage proposal

She loves to share her happiness with him when she gets engaged

She expects him to attend her marriage (Come on guys, he is a true friend of her!)

The guy does all this honestly, without saying a single “No”.

He loves her.

He cares for her.

Whatever he is today; it is only because of her entry in to his life.

He treats her as his life.

She changed him.

It is only because of her, he is smiling.

It is only because of her, he has forgotten the past bitter experiences.

She is the first person in his life to influence him so much.

He was the “bhatka hua musafir” and she came as his “manzil”.

He threw the cigarette in the dust-bin because of her.

He has cultivated a positive attitude towards marriage and family because of her.

She is the perfect Indian woman he has ever seen.

He keeps a photo of Lord Krishna in his purse now; only because of her (also it is her favorite deity!).

Weekends come and go without his notice; it is only because of her.

He stopped going to office on Weekends; it is only because of her.

Onsite project was his dream; he puts all his efforts now, not to get an onsite assignment but to get a job for her in Bangalore.

———— ——— ——— ——— ——— ——— -

The girl depends on the guy as if she never lived and can never live without him. Guy behaves as if he has taken birth on this earth only to care for that

lady. She treats him as a shoulder to cry and he treats her as a puppy in a rain storm. She loves to depend and he loves to take care, finally they fall

in so called “love”, ultimately adding an unnecessary trauma to life. Girls want a perfect life partner but they don’t want to hurt their parents’ feelings,

guys know that they can’t get her but still they want to care for her(because they want her to be happy wherever she is and with whoever she is).Great!

Or shall I say crap!

Or I think no need to be so serious about it.

She gets engaged, life goes on…

Long lasting phone calls become short and sweet, life goes on…

A heart which was used to “Good morning” SMSs learns to be happy with just the “Happy weekend” SMSs, life goes on…

No more “Unread messages” in the yahoo mail, life goes on…

No one to share coffee at “Barista” at the end of a tiring working day, life goes on…

No more consultants’ calls to be diverted and life goes on…

He starts smoking again, life goes on…

He is still living in flashback, and no looking back for her, but life goes on…

He gets promoted, he is a manager, she is mother of two kids, and life goes on…

He is in his late twenties, happily married to a beautiful, understanding, mature, caring, broad minded wife! Anyway life goes on…

Who knows, among these “Nitin”s someone will come up as “Cheran” (ace Tamil film director)and make a wonderful movie “My autograph” telling us of his unsuccessful
love stories, or someone will come up as “Sudeep”( Kannada film actor turned director) who goes to his flashback after seeing this movie and then decides
remaking this movie in Kannada, giving common people an opportunity to relive their past love-life at least for 3 hours, that too with their spouses, without
any problem! Because there is “She” in every wife and there is Nitin in every husband (most of the times!). There are dumb spectators like “Friend” who are puzzled to see the whole episode between “She” and Nitin and just ask themselves “WHAT IT IS???” .
So let no one be victim to that catagory! Right?


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Thursday, January 17, 2008

FRIENDSHIP CARDS

FRIENDSHIP CARDS

FRIENDSHIP WALLPAPERS
FRIENDSHIP PAGES
FRIENDSHIP POEMS

FRIENDSHIP SONGS
FRIENDSHIP MESSAGES
If CARE is a WAVE,i give u SEA.If RESPECT is a LEAF,i give u TREE.If TRUST is a PLANET,i give u GALAXY,if FRIENDSHIP is LIFE i give u MINE 4 FREE..keep smilin.
Your the kind of friend that only heaven could have sent.
I appreciate all the things you do, and the way you show you care.
Last night I sent an angel 2 watch over u while u were sleeping but it came back early! So I asked it why? It said that angels don’t watch over other angels!
Of all the friends I’ve ever met. Your the one I won’t forget.And if I die before you do I’ll go to heaven and wait for you.
One day Friendship & Love met one-another. Love asked Friendship -”Why do You exist if I’m there?” So Friendship said -”To give a Smile to those eyes in which You leave Tears.”
Its not an achievement 2 make 100 FRiENDS in a Year, but an achievement is 2 make a FRiEND for 100 Years, ‘N’ I know I’ve made ONE, that’s . . . YOU !!
Yeah we’re tight, and yeah we fight, but through all of it, there’s one thing that will never change, we’ll be friends forever.
Friends are like gold. Each one is rich and they all last a lifetime.
Stay with me, I’ll stay with you and we’ll be friends, through and through.
FRIENDSHIP QUOTES
Do not save your loving speeches for your friends till they are dead. Do not write them on their tombstones, speak them rather now instead.
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. Friendship is one mind in two bodies.
Without humor, life sucks. Without courage, life is hard. Without love, life is hopeless. Without friends like you, life is impossible!
When a friend is in trouble, don’t annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it.
I value the friend who for me finds time on his calendar, but I cherish the friend who for me does not consult his calendar.
Friends are those rare people who ask how we are and then wait to hear the answer.
Do not save your loving speeches for your friends till they are dead; Do not write them on their tombstones, speak them rather now instead.
A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.
The only way to have friends is to be one.
Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.
FRIENDSHIP NICKNAMES
A true friend stabs you in the front.
We are all alone untill we accept our need for others.
My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me.
One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives.
Friendship is a special kind of love.
Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship–never.
Life without friendship is like the sky without sun.
True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable.
A real friend is someone who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
Side by side or miles apart, dear friends are always close to the heart.
FRIENDSHIP SMS
In my dreams, we were never apart. In my dreams you kept me close. In my dreams you loved me the most. In my dreams we’re always together. Might as well be dreaming forever.
One tree can start a forest, one smile can start a friendship. One touch can show you care, one friend like you can make life worth living for.
I always thought loving someone is the greatest feeling, but I realized that loving a friend is even better. We lose people we love, but we never lose true friends.
Thank you for touching my life in ways you may never know. My riches do not lie in material wealth but in having friends like you - a precious gift from God!
If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn’t jump with them; I’d be at the bottom to catch them.
Some joys are better explained in silence, as a smile gets more audible than laughter. I was asked if I enjoyed my friendship with you. I just smiled.
Keep me as a friend and I will keep you in my heart and lock it up. I’ll throw away the key so that no one can take you away from me.
I thank the Lord for the gift of friendship where I can be myself and be accepted as I am and for finding a home in the heart of a friend like you.
Friends are like the walls of a house. Sometimes they hold you up, sometimes you lean on them. But sometimes, it’s enough to know they’re just standing by.
I thank God I’m rich not with money but with people like you. I may not have the most expensive things but I’ve got a most precious gem… a friend like you.
HOPE YOU ENJOYED IT
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Wednesday, January 16, 2008

THE WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE

T his is a beautiful article:
T he woman in your life…very well expressed…

 

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply
Because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this……

Please appreciate “HER”

I hope you will do….

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Monday, January 14, 2008

A LOVELY MESSAGE.

A LOVELY MESSAGE.

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.


QUESTIONS

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1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?

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ANSWER :

The husband just said “I am with you Darling”

The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior.
The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.
Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. “
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Take off all your envies, jealousies,unforgiv eness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you
think.

MORAL OF THE STORY

This story is really worth reading. ….. Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out something.

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