Thursday, March 6, 2008

10 tips for good night’s sleep

10 tips for good night’s sleep

Stick to a schedule. Erratic bedtimes do not allow for your body to align to the proper circadian rhythms. Mum was right when she set a time we always had to go to sleep as kids. Also, make sure you try to keep the same schedule on weekends too, otherwise the next morning, you’d wake later and feel overly tired.

Sleep only at night. Avoid daytime sleep if possible. Daytime naps steal hours from nighttime slumber. Limit daytime sleep to 20-minute, power naps.

Exercise. It’s actually known to help you sleep better. Your body uses the sleep period to recover its muscles and joints that have been exercised. Twenty to thirty minutes of exercise every day can help you sleep, but be sure to exercise in the morning or afternoon. Exercise stimulates the body and aerobic activity before bedtime may make falling asleep more difficult.

Taking a hot shower or bath before bed helps bring on sleep because they can relax tense muscles.

Avoid eating just before bed.
Avoid eat large meals or spicy foods before bedtime. Give yourself at least 2 hours from when you eat to when you sleep. This allows for digestion to happen (or at least start) well before you go to sleep so your body can rest well during the night, rather than churning away your food.

Avoid caffeine. It keeps you awake and that’s now what you want for a good nights sleep. We all know that.

Read a fiction book.
It takes you to a whole new world if you really get into it. And then take some time to ponder over the book as you fall asleep. I find as I read more and more, regardless of the book, I get more tired at night and so find it easier to fall asleep. Different for others?

Have the room slightly cooler. I prefer this to a hot room. I prefer to turn off the heat and allow the coolness to circulate in and out of the windows. If I get cold, I wear warmer clothes. It also saves on the bills as you’re not going to require the heat all night long.

Sleep in silence. I find sleeping with no music or TV on more easy and restful. I guess others are different, but sleep with no distractions is best for a clearer mind.


Avoid alcohol before bedtime. It’s a depressant; although it may make it easier to fall asleep, it causes you to wake up during the night. As alcohol is digested your body goes into withdrawal from the alcohol, causing nighttime awakenings and often nightmares for some people.

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Monday, February 25, 2008

incOme taX in India important tiPs

1.80C
Qualifying products: NSC, notified bank deposits and post office time deposits, EPF and PPF, ELSS, life insurance plans, deferred pension plans
Mandatory requirements: Payment has to be made before 31 March 2008
Who can avail the deduction: Individuals and HUF (both resident and non-resident)

How much: Cannot exceed Rs 1 lakh.
2. 80CCC
Qualifying products: Pension plans of life insurers
Mandatory requirements: Payment has to be made before 31 March 2008
Who can avail the deduction: Individuals
How much: Within the overall limit of Section 80C (up to Rs 1 lakh)
3. 80D
Qualifying products: Medical insurance policies taken for self, spouse, dependant parents or children, or any member of HUF
Mandatory requirements: Premium should be paid through a cheque out of income chargeable to tax
Who can avail the deduction: Individuals, HUF
How much: Up to Rs 15,000; senior citizens can claim up to Rs 20,000
4. 80DD
Qualifying products: Expenses on the medical treatment of a dependent who is a person with a disability
Mandatory requirements: Certification by a medical authority


Who can avail the deduction: Resident individual or HUF
How much: Up to Rs 50,000, or up to Rs 75,000 if the dependant is a person with severe disability
5. 80DDB
Qualifying products:Expenses on the medical treatment of a specified disease (cancer, AIDS, neurological diseases, chronic renal failure and more)
Mandatory requirements:Certificate in Form No. 10-I to be submitted along with the income tax return form. Deduction is available if the amount is actually paid for treatment
Who can avail the deduction: Resident individuals or HUF
How much: Rs 40,000 (if the person treated upon is less than 65 years of age), or Rs 60,000
6. 80E
Qualifying products: Payment of interest on loan taken for higher studies
Mandatory requirements: Deduction is available in the year in which repayment starts and only for eight immediately succeeding assessment years
Who can avail the deduction: Individuals
How much: Deduction available on the total interest portion of education loan, the principal repayment gets no tax advantage
7. 80G
Qualifying products: Donations to certain funds and charitable institutions
Mandatory requirements: Not applicable
Who can avail the deduction: Resident individuals or HUF
How much:50 or 100 per cent deduction on the entire donated amount, or 50 or 100 per cent deduction subject to 10 per cent of gross total income
8. 80GG
Qualifying products: Rent paid for residential purpose
Mandatory requirements: Should not be getting house rent allowance. Actual rent paid is in excess of 10% of the total income
Who can avail the deduction: Self-employed or salaried
How much: Excess of actual rent paid over 10 per cent of GTI, or 25 per cent of GTI, or Rs 2,000 per month, whichever is the lowest
9. 80U
Qualifying products: Expenses incurred on self, if disabled
Mandatory requirements: Certification by a medical authority to be furnished along with the income tax return form
Who can avail the deduction: Resident individuals
How much: Rs 50,000 for a person with disability, Rs 75,000 for a person with severe disability (disability of over 80 per cent)
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Monday, February 18, 2008

No, no I want him; No, no I want her!

IN THE BEGINNING, God created men and women. The men were without finesse and poise, and ignorance was upon them — or, at least, that’s what the women thought. God felt sorry for the men, who looked cluttered, dirty, filthy, grimy, and grubby. And, God said, “Let there be metrosexuality,” and there was metrosexuality! God seeing that metrosexuality was good, separated the metrosexuals from the ignoramus — the few who refused to look at the light or the mirror. And, finally, God said, “Let the naive machos take a back seat,” and so it came to pass.

In the meanwhile, the metrosexuals, who were gifted with an aesthetic sense and left with an ugly amount of time and money, went about the task of changing the image of men. They hit the spas and beauty salons with a vengeance. They got themselves manicured, pedicured and waxed. They got their craggy faces scrubbed, exfoliated, massaged, and preened. They got their skin re-hydrated and moisturized.

They splurged money on fairness creams, styling gels, concealers, tanning powder, beard-shaders, and lipsticks. They chose their designer wears with care and concern. One of the metrosexual icons went on to act in an ad, showing him enjoying a bath in a tub filled with rose petals, with the screen sirens, whom the ad once featured, in attendance.

The women, who used to complain that men smelt like a pair of used socks, were surprised when one fine day the men came out of the beauty salons prim and proper and fluttered their mascaraed eyelashes. A few women were worried by this sudden development, but a majority of them welcomed the new-looking men and their designer labels. At least, men would not hereafter cringe when it came to spending on cosmetics, the women reasoned.

Lo and behold! The men and women started splurging on cosmetics and designer-wears. Looking good never looked so good before, they thought.

God saw this, and God did not like what he saw. He could not tell them apart. He could not tell who was Eve and who was Adam. He thought that the metrosexual man, instead of complementing the woman, was trying to dethrone her and occupy her place. He thought of Adam dressed in fig leaves. “That was much better,” He muttered to Himself. Then, God said, “It is not good that the men should be like this.” He let confusion enter the minds of women.

The next morning some women thought that the metrosexuals looked like sissies and duly shifted their allegiance to the retrosexuals. A few women thought that the retrosexuals were Neanderthals who wore their sloppy looks and slimy attitude on their filthy sleeves. The others wondered to which category those brawny bods with no brains belonged.


Some craved for the good old types — men who looked unkempt, unshaven, dirty, speckled, stained, smudged, soiled, spotted, sullied, and immaculate in their crudeness and cussedness. And, each woman wondered whether that was what she really wanted. They could not say for sure. The confused men, who were waiting for the Freudian slip from the women, were left wondering, “What do women really want?”

When God found the men and women trapped thus in that Babel of confusions and counter-confusions, He knew He had done His work, and decided to take a day off.

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Friday, February 15, 2008

Do we really need Valentine’s Day?

“AS LONG as I and my girlfriend are together, each day is a Valentine’s Day for us. This day but the profundity of emotions for each other holds the utmost value, isn’t it?” asks Nitin, a 21-year-old student. And indeed he is correct. Love is an unimpeded feeling that disapproves of getting caged behind the bars of certain days.

Apparently Rose Day falls on February 7, which is followed by Propose Day, Chocolate Day, Teddy Day, Promise Day, Kiss Day and Hug Day – strictly in that order, until February 14 emerges when Valentine’s Day rolls in and puts the so-called lovey-dovey days to rest. Why do we ‘ritualise’ these asinine and childish days, which have been spawned in the west? Aren’t these days outshining the real meaning of love and shooting down its charisma?

“Though I don’t very much believe in rejoicing these days, but don’t mind these either,” asserts Naveen, a 23-year-old relationship manager in a bank. Ask him which days among the lot he celebrated with his girlfriend this year, he chirps, “I give her a rose every time we meet… she doesn’t need a soft toy as she herself is one… I’m the chocolate lover amongst us and we celebrate the Propose Day every year. On the day I actually proposed to her eight years back – all in all, we don’t need fixed dates to relish such special moments.”

Sheetal, a GE Money employee, holds different views altogether, “I enjoy celebrating few of these days like Chocolate Day and Teddy Day, as I get loads of chocolates and soft toys, though I have to reciprocate as well. But it’s worth doing so once in a year.”

Now that takes us to another (rather real) facet – ‘once in a year’. Yes, we do celebrate these days once in a year, wherein Valentine’s Day always tops the charts, as it is savoured annually the world over without fail. And at the first flush of the next morning, it becomes history! But the passion of love inside hearts still prevails… throughout the year.

If we scan these days by the names and try to decipher the significance they possibly could hold, we arrive at no good point. Let’s start with Rose Day. What does that mean, in the first place? Are we allowed to pluck roses on this day to gift to our spouse, which is generally against law on the ‘ordinary’ days? Likewise, does Propose Day spread the message that one has got the right of proposing to the one he thinks he is in love with (and if he misses the chance this year, he has lost it for another 364 days)?

And who will demystify the mystery of Chocolate Day? Are the nagging mothers behind the idea of making this day, so that the deprived kids could, with full right, dig teeth into their favourite chocolates? So are the queries about rest of the fêted days – Teddy Day, Promise Day, Kiss Day and Hug Day - unanswered.

A rose followed by a chocolate, a soft toy wrapped into the promises of scores of kisses and hugs are not enough for one to approve of a lover’s proposal. Love is not a mere ‘weekly’ affair, but the long-term bond is what one looks forward to, and that comes from mutual understanding and compatibility, but not from such phony days.

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Thursday, February 14, 2008

Story of Valentines Day

February 14th is Valentines Day

- a worldwide celebration of love and romance, marked by giving red roses and chocolate hearts or by sending valentines .
Often derided as a “Hallmark holiday,” Valentines Day - also known as Saint Valentines Day - is certainly a boom for greeting card companies, florists

and chocolatiers. But long before the mass marketing, Valentines Day was still a high point for courtly love.So, how and where did the holiday get its start? And who is Saint Valentine and why has he become the symbol for love?


For starters, Saint Valentine is probably not just one man, but rather any of a number of martyred saints named Valentine or Valentinus, derived from the Latin word for valor. According to Christian tradition, all of these Saint Valentines are believed to have been martyred on February 14.

The first Valentinus, Valentine of Rome, was a priest and doctor, who treated even those patients who could not afford to pay him. The second Saint Valentine was beheaded for protecting Christians from the Romans. And the third is Valentine of Terni, a bishop believed killed during the persecution of Emperor Aurelian.

While these saints likely bestowed upon Valentines Day its name, they still do not explain the holiday’s love connection. To understand that, one has to go back even further in history - to the Romans.
Historians believe that the holiday of love derives its origins from the ancient Roman feast of Lupercalia. On February 15, the Romans celebrated the Feast of Lupercus, to honor and thank the wolf god who watched over the Roman shepherds and their flocks.
While Lupercus doesn’t seem to have much to do with romance, there was a number of fertility customs associated with his feast. In one of these rituals, women would put their names on slips of paper in a box, to be drawn out by men. The two would then be coupled up for the duration of the festival - or for the rest of the year in some cases. This fertility-friendly feast gives some clue as to the romantic - or at least procreative - nature of the holiday. But we don’t celebrate Saint Lupercus Day on February 14th. So, how did the Valentine saints become associated with the Roman god?

Legend has it that in the 3rd century, the Roman emperor Claudius II banned marriages to prevent draft dodgers. Only single men had to go into the army - and too many young men were getting married.
A Christian priest named Valentinus of Rome ignored the ban, continuing to officiate marriages in secret. Valentinus was caught and sentenced to death - an order carried out on February 14. Another story tells of a priest named Valentinus who was jailed and later executed for helping Christians. He fell for his jailer’s daughter and sent her plaintiff love notes signed “from your Valentine”.
In the late 5th century, Emperor Gelasius declared February 14th a holy day in honor of Valentinus (probably the first, but perhaps the second), allowing Christianity to adopt some of the love day customs previously associated with paganism.
The traditions were reworked, however, to honor the Christian martyrs. For example, instead of boys pulling girls’ names from boxes, both boys and girls chose names of martyred saints to emulate for the year.
It took nearly nine centuries, until the advent of the Renaissance, for Valentines Day to return to its earlier love-based roots. With Romantic art, poetry and music flourishing, the time was ripe for a celebration of love.

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Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Aishwarya Rai Childhood Pictures

Aishwarya Rai with Brother Aditya
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Cute Aishwarya Rai
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Aishwarya Rai with Mother

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Baby Aishwarya Rai
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Aishwarya doing classical dance
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Aishwarya Rai Birthday party
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Aishwarya Rai with Friends
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Aishwarya with Her Parents
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Aishwarya Rai in school
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Monday, February 11, 2008

Touching story

” Dont Let Someone become a priority in Ur life..

             when U are just an Option For them..! “

 

  


I was walking around in a Target store, when I saw a Cashier hand this little boy some money back.

The boy couldn’t have been more than 5 or 6 years old.

The Cashier said, “I’m sorry, but you don’t have enough money to buy this doll.”

Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him: ”Granny,

are you sure I don’t have enough money?”

The old lady replied: ”You know that you don’t have enough money to buy this doll, my dear.”

Then she asked him to stay there for just 5 minutes while she went to look a round. She left quickly.

The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand.

Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give this doll to.

“It’s the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for Christmas.

She was sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her.”

I replied to him that maybe Santa Claus would bring it to her after all, and not to worry.

But he replied to me sadly. “No, Santa Claus can’t bring it to her where she is now. I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my sister when she goes there.”

His eyes were so sad while saying this. “My Sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mommy is going to see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister.”

My heart nearly stopped.

The little boy looked up at me and said: “I told daddy to tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I come back from the mall.”

Then he showed me a very nice photo of him where he was laughing. He then told me “I want mommy to take my picture with her so she won’t forget me.”

“I love my mommy and I wish she doesn’t have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister.”

Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly.

I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. “Suppose we check

again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll?”

“OK” he said, “I hope I do have enough.” I added some of my money to his with out him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll and even some spare money.

The little boy said: “Thank you God for giving me enough money!”

Then he looked at me and added, “I asked last night before I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that mommy could give It to my sister. He heard me!”

“I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn’t dare to ask God for too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll and a white rose.”

“My mommy loves white roses.”

A few minutes later, the old lady returned and I left with my basket.

I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I started.

I couldn’t get the little boy out of my mind.

Then I remembered a local news paper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a truck, who hit a car occupied by a young

woman and a little girl.

The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical

state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the

life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to recover from the coma.

Was this the family of the little boy?

Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the news paper that the young woman had passed away.

I couldn’t stop myself as I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where the body of the young woman was exposed for people to see and make last wishes before her burial.

She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest.

I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling that my life had been changed for ever.. The love that the little boy had for his mother and his sister is

still, to this day, hard to imagine.

And in a fraction of a second, a drunk driver had taken all this away from him.

Now you have 2 choices:

1) Repost this message, or

2) Ignore it as if it never touched your heart.

For those who prefer to think that God is not watching over us…. go ahead and delete this. For the rest of us… pass this on.

The value of a man or woman resides in what he or she gives, not in what they are capable of receiving…repost it as a story that touches your heart.

 

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Hilarious! too good!

This is to provide some comic relief…….. You just can’t stop laughing for every single sentence in the letter below. ;)

In the days when you couldn’t count on a public toilet facility, an English woman was planning a trip to India. She was registered to stay in a small guest house owned by the local schoolmaster. She was concerned as to whether the guest house contained a WC. In England, a bathroom is commonly
called a WC which stands for “Water Closet”. She wrote to the schoolmaster inquiring of the facilities about the WC.

The school master asked the local priest if he knew the meaning of WC. Together they pondered possible meanings of the letters and concluded that the lady wanted to know if there was a “Wayside Chapel”
near the house . . . a bathroom never entered their minds.

So the schoolmaster wrote the following reply:

Dear Madam,

I take great pleasure in informing you that the WC is located 9 miles from the house. It is located in the middle of a grove of pine trees, surrounded by lovely grounds. It is capable of holding 229 people and is open on Sundays and Thursdays. As there are many people expected in the summer
months, I suggest you arrive early. There is, however, plenty of standing room. This is an unfortunate situation especially if you are in the habit of going regularly.

It may be of some interest to you that my daughter was married in the WC as it was there that she met her husband. It was a wonderful event. There were 10 people in every seat. It was wonderful to see the expressions on their faces. We can take photos in different angle. My wife, sadly, has been ill and unable to go recently. It has been almost a year since she
went last, which pains her greatly.

You will be pleased to know that many people bring their lunch and make a day of it. Others prefer to wait till the last minute and arrive just in time. I would recommend your ladyship plan to go on a Thursday as there is
an organ accompaniment. The acoustics are excellent and even the most delicate sounds can be heard everywhere.

The newest addition is a bell which rings every time a person enters. We are holding a bazaar to provide plush seats for all since many feel it is long needed. I look forward to escorting you there myself and seating you in a place where you can be seen by all.

With deepest regards,
The Schoolmaster.

The woman fainted reading the reply…….. and she never visited India!!!!

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Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Miss Universes 1952 - 2005

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Corporate Lessons on Surviving Change


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